Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Gender Confusion


Does God have the ability to determine a person’s gender at birth? Reverend Drew Phoenix of Maryland has split the Church in his recent sex change and amounted much discussion. History has shown that from birth a person is judged by his or her physical traits – something that usually does not deceive the naked eye. However, there are exceptions to the norm. Although social equality has evolved with time, there are many people still living in the past. As one of the most influential texts on this Earth, the one thing that is inhibiting a majority of the population from having a more accepting attitude, the Bible has damned anything unusual, especially gender confusion. According to Darrell of Dow Blog’s Post-Modern Gender Confusion post, “it isn't science that determines gender. Historic Christianity links physicality and gender. God creates man and woman and assigns distinctive biological traits and gender roles” (Darrell Para. 4). This has become a controversial topic in ecclesiastical news recently because of Reverend Drew Phoenix, previously known as Ann Gordon, of the St. John's United Methodist Church in Charles Village, Maryland. Science and religion have had their battles throughout time and this is just another dispute. Reverend Phoenix is a strong believer in faith but at the same time battles all the naysayers for “young people in particular who are struggling with their gender identity” (Phoenix Para. 1). But Darrell, the creator of Dow Blog and a devout Christian, does not drink this Kool-Aid. Darrell rejects any possibility that a person’s true identity may just be trapped inside a shell of physical restrictions. These internal struggles are experienced around the world everyday but Darrell still refuses to consider life in someone else’s shoes. Darrell, as many Christians believe, “such gender confusion is an abomination” (Darrell Para. 4).
Darrell of Dow’s Blog is right that this point of discussion has become more prevalent in recent times. Along with the Woman’s Rights Movement and push for racial equality, people have maintained the courage and freedom to pursue their own means of living. Freedom for all in the form of self-expression is something that America prides itself on. There have been black marks on our country’s history but all in all we have a very open-minded society. This is not something I can say about Darrell. Faith is not something that should be denounced until it takes away a person’s self-expression and freedom. Who is Darrell to judge a person’s true identity? Unfortunately for him, worries such as this have distracted him from more meaningful agendas that affect his life. It is neither Darrell nor anyone else’s place to judge other people. Instead of focusing concerns on violence or something else that affects many people, Darrell considers “sexual confusion” as an abomination. Contrary to common beliefs, science has much to do with gender. Dow Blog says that it is “we who turn this inside-out with our misguided and sinful conceptions of the alleged fluid and subjective nature of sexual identity” (Darrell Para. 5). For many, such emotions cannot be bottled up and ignored. In an ideal world, all people would be treated equally and sexual barriers could be abandoned. A religious fanatic such as a follower of Dow’s Blog should consider different viewpoints with value. It is difficult for such minorities to gain respect and this is unfortunate.
In a world where anything that is considered different is wrong, society refuses to accept that gender confusion affects many different people. I pity Darrell, a major contributor to Dow’s Blog, because he is trapped in the rules and expectations of a Christian society and is blind to any differing opinions. Respect may be too much to ask for at this instance, but with today’s cultural advancements people should at least be able to accept differences and acknowledge gender confusion for what it is. Whether gay, transgender, or heterosexual, we should all have the freedom of self-expression. If there is a situation in which a person’s physical body does not align with his or her true gender, people like Darrell should accept it and move on. While Darrell refers to “the doctrines of equality” as “heresy” (Darrell Para. 12), it is individualism that he is afraid of in his obstinate state of mind.

Friday, February 6, 2009

Expectations...


So I'm a first-time blogger and this is my opening post. This post is about diverse viewpoints and how "rules" and stereotypes can be confining. My english class is studying Jamaica Kincaid's poem, Girl, and in response, I have written my own poem. Unlike Kincaid's piece, this is more lighthearted. At times it is funny but it has a very serious underlying tone. Rules and conformity can control a person's indentity. Check it out and feel free to leave some comments. 


Benchwarmer



To An Aspiring Athlete:



Tie your shoes before entering the gym. Tight. Be on time. Being on time means be 15 minutes early. Otherwise you’re late. Coach does not like it when you are late. Coach is impressed when you are early. But that’s expected, so not too impressed. Come prepared – 30 minutes of mental preparation for the actual preparation. 14 minutes of pre-game-preparation-planning. 10 minutes of pre-game-pump-up-music-selection-preparation. Then you gotta pack your drink – preferably Gatorade or some other re-hydrating thirst quenching beverage – and I usually bring a snack-bag for the bus ride as well. Preparation includes an initial pre-game stretch, I know what you’re thinking and come on, don’t be lazy because the initial stretch is important. Now Game-Time. Well actually, no not yet. Relax on the bus ride. Get into the zone. Big game tonight and this is finally the chance you’ve been waiting for all season. You have sat on the bench long enough, practiced harder than anyone, and have endured harsh experiences as the ball boy. Put in your headphones. Turn on your music. And gaze out the window. You did get a window seat didn’t you? Well anyway, just think about that for the bus ride. This pre-game anxiety is normal. I guess you can say its another part of the pump up preparation process. Now inside the locker room. Change into your jersey. The locker room is usually quiet on a game like today’s. Coach will come in very soon. He’ll talk and strategize. You listen. Strategize too, but make sure to do whatever Coach says. This is a good time to stretch again. Loosen up and shake out those jitters. What’s the noise coming from outside the locker room? Probably the crowd or the home team introduction music. Yeah it gets nerve-racking but that’s the fun part of the game! Huddle up as a team. You are a role player and an important part of the team. High fives. Scream. Jump. Jog in place. Roll your head and stretch your neck. Loosen up. Time to go. Single file line. Yeah, I guess you can compare it to battle. Run out. Smack the door as you run out. The crowd starts to cheer. It’s okay to smile. Well its okay to grin but you still have to look somewhat tough. You know, intimidate the other team. Lay-up lines. Dribble dribble shoot. Pass. Dribble dribble shoot. Pass. Get pumped up. Loosen up. Game time. It’s okay not to start the game. Wait for your moment. Jump ball. Cheer. Be ready be ready. Coach put me in! Nope not yet. But be ready just in case because it could be any minute. Time out. Get water. Half full. Two cups in each hand. Don’t spill otherwise you’ll have to wipe it up with your own shirt. Good game guys. Keep working hard. Sit down and start cheering again. It’s okay, you are more than just a cheerleader. Coach just said go in! You heard him right! Go! Check in at the scorer’s table. The crowd erupts in cheer. Hard work. Run and play hard every play. I know you’ll do great.